Why do cops cheat

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Same is true for FBI know a few of them too. Also, when a person becomes a cop it's hard for them to only be a cop at work.

She never sits with her back to the open. When we go to a restaurant she has to sit at a table that is against a wall so she can see everything. She's suspicious of everyone at all times. After 20 years of serving it's only natural for her to have absorbed so many terrible things that she's on guard at all times. She's almost like a war vet. She talks about things she's seen and I totally understand why she thinks the way she does. I think that has much more to do with the higher divorce rate than anything else.

I was under the impression that mostly people don't advertise this kind of thing too loudly. I don't know if police officers are more prone to cheat but I have to believe it's more difficult not to when you have women who aggressively go after you. And I've seen some of them in action Could this lead to difficulty maintaining intimacy? I know it's TV, but watch Stabler's marriage dissolve over time. I think the show does a decent job of portraying the potential issues-so many things that he can't talk to her about, so many hours away from her and the family, and walls start to go up over time.

Add in the intense emotion involved in the job-it's a risk. Tags: None. I can't say with certainty that cops cheat more than other professions. I believe it is rampant everywhere. I honestly don't believe this is isolated to this station either. The best advice i can offer is this - if you don't trust the person you're with, you probably need to move on.

If you are dating an LEO and can't handle the numerous opportunities they have - you probably shouldn't try. Comment Post Cancel.

Men just suck No never, who us? We don't do such things!! Seriously, all men and women have plenty of opportunities to cheat, let's not just beat up on men for cheating, women do it too and often times better.

Of the hundreds of cops I work with, there are only a handful, including me, that I can say with confidence have never cheated on their wives. What's the problem?

This job will change him in ways he won't even realize, and he'll suddenly become five times as attractive to females, once he puts on the blue suit. If a guy becomes a cop after he's married, that marriage has a very good chance of failing. Just my observation. I waited until I was 32 to get married for a reason. First, I got all the "bachelor" stuff out of my system, and I had also been on the job long enough that my wife knew what she was getting.

Along with what Delta said, I want to add that the 'brotherhood' is very adept at protecting it's members. I also know and have seen this first hand. It's quite scary. I was working the desk on Thanksgiving night, , answered the phone, the female caller asked if patrolmen work a straight 36 hour shift, I said "no".

She then named the officer married and told me that she has been "Seeing" him for a while and that he has been telling her that he was going to leave his wife for her. It was entertaining, so I listened a while. She sounded like a middle aged woman who should have known better than to believe the "I'm going to leave my wife and kids soon".